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Communicating with your ex boyfriend is one of the things not to do following your breakup, if you want your ex boyfriend to come back to you. This may sound a bit off, but calling him too soon can result in your plan backfiring and him hanging up on you telling you not to ever talk to him again.

The biggest favor you can do to yourself, is to resist all temptation of picking up the phone and calling him or texting him. It is a scary endeavor to be embarking on, but it is the first step to getting him back. Providing some distance between yourself and your ex boyfriend is vital, because he needs some time to sort out his life, without influence from you.

During this time, don’t sit around drowning in self pity, wondering what he’s doing and if he’s seeing someone else right now. The chances of this happening, by the way, are very small.

If you want an answer to the question of will my ex boyfriend come back to me, then my best piece of advice to you is the following:

No man wants to be with a women who’s whole life revolves around him. Every man wants a woman that has her own interests and her own life. Use this time after the breakup to re-find yourself. Find out who you are. What are your interests? Take up a new hobby, hit the gym, go back to school or anything else that will keep you busy. If you reinvent yourself into a new better version of the previous you, your ex boyfriend will want you even more than before.

There are other steps that every woman needs to take if she wants to get her ex boyfriend back. Making the wrong moves can possibly end your relationship forever.

Now listen up,

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Don’t despair! There’s always hope. But before on ‘fixing’ the marriage, you must acknowledge what you are feeling right now:

Begging – You beg your wife to take you back – give you at least one more chance and you willing to change.

Afraid – You fear that you will never meet the same beautiful women ever again. And at your age, it’s going to be harder to find a new partner. You’re not willing to go through the painful dating process again.

Guilt – You may blame that it was your entire fault. Also, you might feel guilty that you hurting her feelings and that she is going to be scarred for life.

Hope – You dream that if you do one magical thing, everything would be back to normal and healthy again.

Anger – You will feel angry because you either were the cause of this situation or your wife has cheated on you. You blame other people or yourself why you bought this situation to yourself.

Sadness – You feel very lonely in the relationship. It seems your partner doesn’t really care how you feel. Sometimes, you have suffered so much that you cry yourself to sleep.

Denial – You can’t believe this is happening to yourself. Everything seems fine. It seems like your partner had overreacted and you thing that she is just having a bad hair day.

It is important to acknowledge all these feelings before you can improve your marriage. Being in denial or being angry will prevent you from improving your marriage because you use most of your energy being angry and not enough energy to improve it.

Instead, use your emotional energy in more productive ways. First of all to fix your marriage, find things that both of you enjoy together. For example, remember when you were first dating you would go and go to your local ice-skating rink and enjoy your time falling down and skating? Try the same thing again and try to forget the bad times and enjoy yourself.

Try not to focus on the negativity of your relationship, instead try to focus ways in which you can love your partner again. Forgive yourself in what you had done in the past and most importantly ask your partner to forgive you. Acknowledging and forgiving the past is the best method is moving forward with your relationship.
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What is my ultimate goal? – Is your ultimate goal to live in your own house or to make some money? Take an hour to write down what the exact outcome that you are looking for is and then you will know what your next move will have to be to take a step towards that goal.

How are you financially? – You have to take into account your current financial situation at the moment. If you are struggling financially then you might want to take out a loan or just stick with renting to get some short term income to cover your bills. I would not recommend trying to sell your house if you are experiencing severe financial trouble at the moment.

Benefits And Negatives – Look at the benefits and the negatives of each approach. Be totally honest with yourself and do not lie as this will only turn sour in the future. Write them down and compare them to each other. Which ever one has the most positives and fits your currency financial situation and is in line with what you ultimately want you should go for. It sounds simple and that is because it really is.  

Worst Scenario – Picture to yourself the absolute scenario that could happen if you select either of these choices. The absolute worst, not the second worst. Do you think you could handle that eventually? I’m sure you could. Play it out in your mind. This will rid you of all your fear surrounding taking some action.
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Before we left my father loaded it up in the trunk of the car so I could work on it at home. There was no need to do any major repairs, just a few nails here and a touch of putty there. I thought it would be easy. This is the best thing about a doll house made of wood, it can never ware out.

Once we arrived at home and unloaded it, I began to take a closer look at it. The paint was still there but was peeling in places. This I found out was the reason my mother tried to discourage me from refurbishing it. My father said he would help me with the few nails that it needed and he did. But now was the job of scraping and sanding the entire doll house.

It had been 30 years since this house had a coat of paint so it was overdue. Just like a big house, it is made out of wood and needs to be painted, so I began the task. I scraped and scraped for days until finally my father told me it was done. Then with a little fine sanding it was ready for painting. Once the painting was done the wooden doll house was good as new. This is the advantage of using wood, it never wears out.

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Our life might have been easier if we lived, if we enjoyed what we had in the first place and did not try so hard to “have” what others had

Do not get me wrong. This does not mean that you have to live in the woods and having one shirt and a pair of trousers. It’s being yourself and defining how you want to live your life instead of having other people tell you how to run it. You may be “different”, people may think that you are “weird” or strange but at least you will be at peace with yourself.
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My point is, no matter what, I rationally align my thoughts with my actions successfully, calmly and rationally, even when “the chips are down.” I just mentioned in this part of the article a chief tenet of businessman and business writer George Samuel Clason (author of the book “The Richest Man In Babylon”) and a genuinely prosperous in his lifetime and great leader like King Croesus versus “just another rich guy down on his luck” like Job. So, to put it in a shorthand way that could make sense when thought about enough: Your (or my) thoughts or actions make or break you (or me) and no matter what happens externally, that is the reality of yours (mine) or anyone’s situation.

Despite my best efforts, that is the clearest I can type that point in an article for now. In even clearer, more shorthand terms, I quote Brian Tracy: “If you want to fly with the eagles, you cannot continue to scratch with the turkeys.” No matter what, rewards go to those who create/make, honestly take and are not lazy about opportunity and opportunities. The real key to life is to learn and earn, not burn and spend. Expenditure and use or burning and spending is secondary to the primary learning about life and earning benefit from life. It is all your individual choice. So personally, I quote a saying Golden Rule Jones of Toledo, Ohio had in the 1910’s and 1920s though: “I want for everyone what I want for myself, I want the good and great.” I figured I would use that quote an uncle of mine on my Father’s side of my family born in the early 20th century told me as a kid in 1978, before I read it in Charles F. Haanel’s “Master Key System” at a local public library in 1980, well all that aside, I end by repeating that quote, only to preamble it with I mean every word of it, fully, honestly and rationally: “I want for everyone what I want for myself, I want the good and great.”

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